
Many times, your competitive nature can get the best of you. And this desire to win can be the downfall of your business. Underbidding a competitor or over-promising a client can really get the blood going but these are really high stakes decisions you're making. Fears of not getting a job, fears of not meeting a deadline, and even just having a small crowd around can incite your desire to compete and try to win.
Stepping away from a heated negotiation is not a sign of weakness or a failure of any kind. It is a sign of intelligence and leadership. Realize that this is not a war and your rival is not really the enemy. This is business and your company needs to be around for a very long time. I'm sure you're aware of the success rate of most contracting businesses within this industry. It's not good.
Don't make spur-of-the-moment decisions just to meet a deadline. Bruce Springsteen once said, "A release date is just one day, but the record is forever." A deadline is one day but your decision could affect you for quite a long time.
The best way to gain the respect of any crowd is to know when to walk away for the best of your business. Try to go into any negotiation with set maximums and don't go beyond them at any point.
Cut into your profits and you cut out the heart of your business.